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Chandris038
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Posted on: Aug 19, 2007
Re: Group Sex?
Depending on wether u wish to add another male or female and wether she has any Bi curiousity.
I had a partner once reluctant to try anything other than 1on1 straight sex. I discussed it with her several times as I'm sure u have, but then doing later conversations I began asking her if she did do something like that who would she like to try it with a man or woman, and then move into if she knows any 1 she thought of trying it with. I have found most people have a secret desire to taste some 1 close and familliar. Once you investigate her secret desires.
Invite a mutual friend that would agree to participate. Have a few drinks to loosen her up (not knock her out)
Then you can go 2 ways here. My favorite is to start making out with her. A lil flirty fun. Get her warmed up. Not too heavy at 1st, she might shy away because of the other friend, but be persistant in a flirty and playful way. As she gets more involved with you and she passes the point of wanting u regardless of the surroundings. Let the other person begin to caress and fondle her while you rev her up. Before you know it all of you are naked and having a very hot and spicey sexual experience. *Note she may break from making out with you and try to cool you off, but let her know it's ok for her to feel and want new things and that it will only happen when u both are together.* That usually works for me.
The other way to swing her in the mood is. Once she is feeling good and relaxed. Let the other person slip a not so innocent hand across her ass as he/she walks by. Leave the room for a moment or he/she can follow ur partner into say the kitchen and (accidently) bump lips. Slight moves and mischievious sex play, jokes will make her feel more comfortable as the night moves along.
Neither of these are quick (wham bam thank u maam). But the pay off is out of this world.
Have a good time and make sure ur lady has a very good time. She may not want to do it again, but then she might suprise u like others have me.
If yall need a 3rd, 4th, 5th, gimme a shout. I like meeting new friends.
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Posted on: Feb 09, 2008
Re: Group Sex?
I notice so far all the respondees to your question are men, so please allow me to give some thoughts.
I was with my ex for 20 years, beginning in my early 20's....and we had a great sex life. little by little, he began asking me to do things....always with the "because you look so beautiful when you make love, etc etc". "please baby, do it for me". So I did.....and each time I did something for him, he wanted more and more. finally....it became something I dreaded....because he was never satisfied and it made me feel, ultimately, not like a wife, but a whore. we are now divorced.
So.....don't push it. If you love her and want to keep her, you may need to accept that some fantasies.....are meant to remain so. My fantasy....still unfulfilled....is to find just one man who wants to keep me all for himself.
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