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tj41168 42 M
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Posted on: Aug 10, 2007

Group Sex?

How do you convine an unwilling partener to just try having
sex with more than one person at a time? I have been trying
to talk my wife into doing the group thing but she just will
not budge. Her answer is always the same " You are all I
need to be satisfied." Well I'm always satisfied with her
too but I'd like to spice things up and just try it once.
Any suggestions?

 

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namethatwork 47 M
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Posted on: Aug 17, 2007

Re: Group Sex?

I am in the same situation as you. She has recently said
that she would have sex with another woman but I could not
particpate I could only watch. I am fine with that. I hope
that this will happen sooner than later. I would say just
don't rush it. Tell her how much seeing her with a group of
people would turn her on. I would share this with her when
the two of you are going at it and she is all hot and
steamy. Good luck!!

 

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johnnylee100 22 M
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Posted on: Aug 17, 2007

Re: Group Sex?

argue with her. say that, nothing against her, but you think
it would be eve more fun to try it with other people
included. say that she may be satisfied, but you want to try
something new every once in a while. it shouldnt always be
just about her, you should get to fulfill a fantasy every
now and then, too.

 

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m1ch1gan 45 M
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Posted on: Aug 18, 2007

Re: Group Sex?

My wife is not open to more than one person at a time,
either. I have been told that if I try too hard to coerce
her into it, it will likely lead to big problems between
us. I would suggest that you let it alone for a while and
not try to push her toward it, but occasionally suggest it
just to let her know that it is something that you would
like to try. That's what I'm doing.

 

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themaster87 23 M
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Posted on: Aug 18, 2007

Re: Group Sex?

Dude, 
Respect what your wife says.
If you want to spice
up things, try alternative means to bringing that
about. Peace Out!

 

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Chandris038 46 M
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Posted on: Aug 19, 2007

Re: Group Sex?

Depending on wether u wish to add another male or female and
wether she has any Bi curiousity. I had a partner once
reluctant to try anything other than 1on1 straight sex. I
discussed it with her several times as I'm sure u have, but
then doing later conversations I began asking her if she did
do something like that who would she like to try it with a
man or woman, and then move into if she knows any 1 she
thought of trying it with. I have found most people have a
secret desire to taste some 1 close and familliar. Once you
investigate her secret desires. Invite a mutual friend that
would agree to participate. Have a few drinks to loosen her
up (not knock her out) ::c Then you can go 2 ways here.
My favorite is to start making out with her. A lil flirty
fun. Get her warmed up. Not too heavy at 1st, she might shy
away because of the other friend, but be persistant in a
flirty and playful way. As she gets more involved with you
and she passes the point of wanting u regardless of the
surroundings. Let the other person begin to caress and
fondle her while you rev her up. Before you know it all of
you are naked and having a very hot and spicey sexual
experience. *Note she may break from making out with you and
try to cool you off, but let her know it's ok for her to
feel and want new things and that it will only happen when u
both are together.* That usually works for me. The other
way to swing her in the mood is. Once she is feeling good
and relaxed. Let the other person slip a not so innocent
hand across her ass as he/she walks by. Leave the room for a
moment or he/she can follow ur partner into say the kitchen
and (accidently) bump lips. Slight moves and mischievious
sex play, jokes will make her feel more comfortable as the
night moves along. ::Y Neither of these are quick (wham
bam thank u maam). But the pay off is out of this world.
Have a good time and make sure ur lady has a very good
time. She may not want to do it again, but then she might
suprise u like others have me. If yall need a 3rd, 4th,
5th, gimme a shout. I like meeting new friends. ::c

 

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anonymous

Posted on: Feb 09, 2008

Re: Group Sex?

I notice so far all the respondees to your question are men,
so please allow me to give some thoughts. I was with my ex
for 20 years, beginning in my early 20's....and we had a
great sex life. little by little, he began asking me to do
things....always with the "because you look so beautiful
when you make love, etc etc". "please baby, do it for me".
So I did.....and each time I did something for him, he
wanted more and more. finally....it became something I
dreaded....because he was never satisfied and it made me
feel, ultimately, not like a wife, but a whore. we are
now divorced. So.....don't push it. If you love her and
want to keep her, you may need to accept that some
fantasies.....are meant to remain so. My fantasy....still
unfulfilled....is to find just one man who wants to keep me
all for himself.

 

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